Peter Crone Said Something to This Man That Made Him Cry for the First Time in Years

For over four decades, you've been wired to desperately scan your environment to not [music] do anything wrong. >> I remember my dad checking in the door to to [music] the bathroom, me standing on the outside, and my mother and my two sisters standing in the bathroom. >> What does that feel like in your body?

[music] >> Kind of feels unsafe. But at the same time, like but think more deeply about it, it's kind of this frustration or anger as well. >> What is it like as a man, constantly as a husband, as a father, constantly living in the world of make sure you don't do anything wrong? What does that

feel like to live like that? I want you to consider it's a lens that you look through. Whatever you do, don't [ __ ] up. Whatever you do, don't make a mistake. Whatever you do, don't upset anybody. That's exhausting. [music] It's not who you are, it's a role that you learned at a very young age that has

become so embedded in the way that you relate to life that that's now Well, pleasure to meet you. >> Pleasure to to meet you, too. >> How do I pronounce your name correctly? >> It's Havard. >> Havard. >> Havard. >> Okay, is that where you from? Is that German or >> No, I'm from Norway.

>> Oh, okay. >> Yeah, Norway, but living in Denmark. >> Okay, amazing. They're two countries I've yet to actually visit. So, I've got uh I've got them on my list to make it sometime to get there. I hear they're both beautiful people uh beautiful countries with beautiful people. >> [laughter] >> So, well, welcome to uh

uh Finding Freedom podcast. I got your video, and I did my best to sort of unpack what you were sharing about the pressure that you feel and how sometimes I can build up, build up, and then there's maybe a bit of an explosion, and how it's impacting you know, your relationship with your wife and you have