Is Your Ex Too PRIDEFUL To Come Back? | Coach Ken RelationShip Advice (2025)

so one of the strongest and most consistent fears that I hear from callers and I'll see it a lot of times in the comments too is that my ex is too stubborn my ex is too proud you don't know my ex I'm sure you've talked to a lot of people and I know I understand

the concept of no contact I understand what you're saying in your videos but you just don't know my ex I literally hear that more than I hear anything else and I'm not trying to talk you out of it you're right I don't know your ex you're right I don't know the person that

you're telling me is too proud that is too stubborn to come back a lot of times they'll add in their own little background they've never changed their mind once they end a relationship they never turn around and come back so that's this is a common situation the problem is that fear whether it's based

in truth and the reality of the person that you know that I've never met or not the problem is it's going to feed and magnify the wrong compulsion it goes back to Common Sense versus human nature trust human nature more than you trust your own fear more than you trust your own sense of uh logic in the situation

right now fear is going to tell you well if they're not going to come back I need to go get them fear is going to tell you if they're too stubborn if they're too proud then I need to win them back a lot of times they'll add into their own little story they'll say and as a matter

of fact we've broken up in the past and every time we get back together it's because I go get them so I understand the principles but I just don't think it's going to work with me I've literally seen and heard that hundreds and hundreds of times more times than I can count more times countless times