Money Shame, Investing Late And Never Seeing The Numbers | A Wealth Coach Who Advised Thousands

you're not bad at money, you're most likely just unsupported at this time. [music] I felt so anxious just opening my banking app. There was sort of shame underneath that where it's like, oh, I just I don't want to see how much I spent on this. >> A woman who earns well, living a nice

life, but still feels really anxious about managing her own money. >> Wealth is what you own as opposed to [music] kind of income being just what you earn. There's something else in the way that's not just financial literacy. It's not a lack of information. It's some emotional piece, some block that's getting in the

way. >> Every woman has a money story that's running in her background. >> Money doesn't grow on trees. Our beliefs are sort of set into us. By the time we're like 5 years old, if I'm chasing money, if I want more money, am I being greedy? >> It's a part of the personality.

>> Exactly. She was spending a lot more on takeout than she thought she was. She was like, >> comfort and validation. >> Exactly. What I recommend doing is having a I call it like a money date. [music] You know, once a month opening your app, looking at your numbers, knowing where things are going without

judgment, without shame. That was something that I I struggled with early on. What have you seen as a money hack that couples use and always works? So,

most of us will never sit across from a wealth coach. The women who do, who get a private hour with someone who manages money for a living, are usually the ones who already have plenty of it, which is a quiet irony, right? The people who most need this conversation are the least likely to get it, which is exactly