This Is How Childhood Fear Becomes Adult Anxiety

You know, you're literally like educated, smart, done all the work, you know, you're taking care of yourself. You could argue that as parents go and as mothers goes, you're a pretty [ __ ] good role model, right? >> Yes. >> And yeah, you know, you're going to fall short and you have to because for them

to go through whatever it is that they need to go through, you have to not provide some of the things that they're here to learn to develop for themselves. And so when you start to look through those lenses, you know, it's I was talking to someone in my mastermind literally on Saturday module 2. And she

came on to it's a zoom. It's people from all around the world, over 37 countries, really moving at the myriad of stories. And she was lying in bed and she had a bowl next to her because she felt like she couldn't breathe, but she's like, I feel like I'm about to vomit. like I just I feel like on the

precipice of a breakthrough but at the same time so discomforted because this is both confronting but powerful what we're going through which is of course part of the journey and so I came back to work with her and help her out and it turned out that she grew up like a lot of kids in a very murial household where

dad particularly was really um sort of militant in his approach right so before dad came home and you heard the car pull into the drive the kids had to suddenly make sure none of their stuff was around, right? Books on the table or, you know, shoes out or like dad wanted the house to be a certain way. The like

the to an extreme kid should be seen, not heard, and in this case, not even seen apparently, right? So, here's this little girl who's now a grownass woman, 50some, but still living in the absolute terror of to go back to that brain that's anticipating worst case scenarios. she had learned that there were always consequences of her