人生を破壊する【3つの完璧主義】

Hi, this is Yamato. So today, we're going to do a diagnosis to find out which type you are. If you're a perfectionist, you're four times more likely to succeed. There are actually three types. I'd like to talk about perfectionism, which is becoming increasingly popular, especially among young people. To be clear, perfectionists don't reach a certain level.

Especially as you get older, it's known that perfectionism can be harmful to your life. In fact, with the spread of social media, it's become easier to compare yourself to others. In the past, you probably didn't know what the lives of celebrities or famous people were like. You probably didn't have the

time to make numerical comparisons like follower counts or view counts. So there wasn't much opportunity to compare yourself to others. Recently, it's become easier to compare yourself to others, and people who are living the life you want and your ideal life are starting to appear in the world. And you end up comparing yourself to them and feeling like you have to do everything

perfectly. Also, other people's failures are often in the news. 。 かで １出 １

Looking at meta-analyses and other studies, it seems that Kobe is indeed low, but the number of people at ticket gates is increasing dramatically. The reason why this perfectionism is so dangerous is that when you become a perfectionist, you become extremely afraid of failure. Because of this, you tend to get discouraged by small mistakes or failures, and you

stop trying new things or making efforts. You end up thinking, "If I'm going to try and fail anyway, I might as well not try anything new and just do the same old things that everyone else does." Because of this, your motivation decreases. Looking at previous research, it has been found that the older perfectionists get, the more failures they experience in life.