How to Emotionally Detach from Someone - Carl Jung

we are going to talk about something that is going to hurt you but you need it you have been lied to Forever they have made you believe that what you feel is love when it is really fear fear of being alone fear of not being enough fear of not being loved fear of not having someone who validates

you who makes you feel like you are worth something but tell me the truth what would happen if that person disappeared tomorrow would you still feel complete or would you crumble like a poorly built structure which only stood up thanks to the presence of another that not in your stomach that tremble in your hands when a message is

not answered that insomnia that makes you check their last connection time and again that is not love it is anxiety disguised it is attachment it is emotional dependency and the worst of all you confuse it with love because no one taught you to love without needing Carl Yung said it brutally the meeting of two

personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances if there is any reaction both are transformed but you are not transforming you are getting lost you are molding yourself inage of another so that they do not leave you are reducing yourself denying yourself betraying yourself because it terrifies you that the other might not choose you because you believe

that without them you are nothing here is the truth you do not want to hear it is not love what you feel it is an addiction you are hooked on the other as someone hooks on a drug because it makes you feel something that you alone do not know how to give yourself

because it calms a void that you do not even dare to face headon do you know what attachment is it is the illusion that you need someone to survive it is that internal whisper that tells you without them I die but you do not die you face it you rebuild yourself you transform because absence when you know