When No Contact Backfires | Watch if in No Contact | no contact rule (2025)

making a video right now that's probably not going to get many views nobody wants to know why you should stop using no contact to win somebody back that's unhealthy for you people just want to know how to win back the person that they're in pain over losing they don't really want to hear why they shouldn't

want that person back and I get it I've been in that position the truth says no contact is so effective that it can work and help you win back somebody that will then torment you for years it can work even when you don't want it to work one of the things that it works on and the

reason it works on even unhealthy toxic people the the the premise of it is supposed to be if you're a good person but if you get confused and sometimes healthy relationships wear each other down sometimes two people that really Belong Together can misunderstand each other can fail to communicate enough that you really start to wear on each

other's sense of respect actually start to deteriorate each other's sense of value in the beginning with limerance limerance is so high that you both make each other feel wanted and admired and respected and valued and cherished well over time limites wears off and you start to resent and you start to judge and you start to actually resent the

person that you're with for not being more like you for not being able to meet your expectations the limerance the dopamine the serotonin the adrenaline has all worn off and now the fantasy has faded in your left with reality so sometimes two healthy people that really Belong Together can stop seeing each other for who they really are and the

value that they really have if somebody else comes into the picture then they can get pulled away and before you know it a really healthy what should have been healthy what what really at its foundation is a functional effective meaningful relationship the value can be lost so no contact works because it helps that person actually wake up and