How to Build Respect & Authority

Five Things That Make You Lose Respect. Number one, having no boundaries. If you don't know how much you can tolerate from people's nonsense, people will push your limits until you do so. If you ca n't say no to something, people will never take you seriously. The second thing is desperation for approval. When you ask someone, am

I doing the right thing? So you are indirectly telling people that you don't trust yourself. That you are not confident. When you yourself are not approving yourself then what value will your approval have? Number three is no emotional control. If you get triggered by every little thing , take everything personally , become insecure, then it

means you cannot regulate your emotions. And everyone likes to maintain distance from an emotionally unstable person. Forget about respect. The fourth thing is breaking your own word. A person who is not true to his words is not worthy of respect. If you break your commitment every time , or break your promise every time,

then it simply means that you are not reliable. And who will respect a person who is not reliable? And the last thing is tolerating disrespect. When you ignore someone's insult, it simply means that you are okay with it. And this is the most dangerous because it is an open invitation for all people to

disrespect you. So why will they not?