This Is Why You’re Still Carrying Pain That Isn’t Yours

I was on a show a couple of days ago and I was saying like our fears are the beacons that like the path to freedom meaning so the limitations and the concerns that we have that most people try to mitigate or ignore or numb out or escape. It's actually that's that's the access to the liberation that we want.

So >> sort of a a little bit of a catch 22 where you don't want to experience like the adversities and the discomforts but they're the gifts to show you where you're not free, >> right? And I think that's why when you when you understand it and you look at the the journey of being human through

that different lens of like, okay, if it's not about raising a family and getting followers and making money and being successful and hopefully living a long life, but really we're here as souls to emancipate oursel from our constraints and recontextualize the whole journey. Then all of a sudden it's like, well, hang on a minute. Wherever

there is discomfort, wherever there is struggle or fear or I'm being triggered by something, that's actually now seen as the opportunity, not something to avoid. So, it sort of changes the playing field a bit. And I was at the US Open yesterday, as I was telling you, with one of the best athletes of all

time, you know, and we were talking about how most humans are, at least I was sharing, are just in a state of sort of automatic reaction. Because if you're oblivious, then we're really just being driven by our conditioning. So stimulus response, stimulus response, somebody says something that, you know, triggers something inside of you at a deep

subconscious level. You have a reaction, some sort of emotion, but it's not a conscious choice. So first place I start is typically presence is just to hold space and to let somebody know that they're safe cuz that's the primordial need for any human being particularly the feminine but the masculine in different ways but for the most part if