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Does Radio Silence Work If My Ex Is Stubborn

Alexis Friedlander - The Avoidant Therapist · 1,719 words · 9 min read · EN

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those radio silence work with the stubborn x this is what we're going to cover today radio silence as you know is the best technique if you wanted to get back with your ex but the question is would really work with the stupid x so basically think of you know in the relationship whenever

there was an argument you were the first one to make the you're the first to make the move towards the other when there was an argument you were the one apologizing what if things change right now we're gonna discuss that jingle i get getmyxback.com everyone deserves a second chance before i move on just i can remind you

there's a quiz for you to know if you have any chance to get back with your ex the link is in the first comment of the description it takes literally one minute and you get a result right away whether you have any chance with score and you know recommended tips depending on your score

hope you have above 15 if you don't it's time to move on first a stubborn person is someone who wants to get what they want so they point fingers at the other person they don't want to change their opinion in general but this will also help so it's a broad definition of a stubborn person

you understand why we need that in order for you to get back together radio science works on stubborn people that's a fact it works same way as it works with other people it works with stubborn people the thing is they expect you to give in they expect you to give up and contact them and run after them and

chase them so if you don't contact them they'll be surprised they're usually the ones controlling they're usually the ones expecting you to make that first move to apologize to make that first move to things to reconcile stuff but now that's not the case things have changed and they realize that stubborn people would

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not necessarily tell it but they will realize that internally and then have that sort of feeling within themselves so they think you're going to reach out and come back the thing is sometimes you might have begged in the past as you behaved as usual the same dynamic he's the one being right or she's the

one always being right you're the one trying to make to to work things out to apologize to commit uh midway and suddenly your top being stronger the loss is the strongest feeling you can create in your ex's mind and that's why you're watching this video you're watching this video because you want to learn

how to make it work you want to learn how to grow how to use this technique in order to get back together so when your ex has the same sense of loss he or she will have the same motivation as you do right now we want to create that feeling of loss that fear of loss

to create that motivation that sort of letting go of their ego and come to see and speak with you so for example the example of the tires so if i show up to your place um at night i ring the bell and i tell you come on come on um at the the garage

next door they have a reduction on tires it's 50 the price the usual price come and get one what will tell you which will tell me you'll just like slam the dot on my face and they tell me to go away no if i show up to your place at night i ring

the bell and i said someone is stealing one of you one of the tires of your car you know you should go and get it you run after the guy i don't know what you're gonna do and then you're gonna thank me the one first case is i was offering you something to win

again the second thing is i was preventing you from losing something and we are so much more motivated when it comes to avoid loss and this is what we're going to create with this radio silence i'd love to see in the comment section if you like this idea of this example of the tire i'm not sure if

it's a good one so let me know um so yeah we fight more to keep what we have so we're gonna fight to keep what they have so now the third thing is finding the mutual um the balance you should put the same effort like the other one or be as stubborn and i know it's not your

behavior character is not that's not how you behave but you have to be equal and equal it's a little bit the same as if you were seeing two teams or two tennis players playing together you have the number one you have djokovic or nadal playing against myself in tennis there's no point watching the game it's

going to be 16 16 16 and it's going to be it's not going to be entertaining it's the same you have to rebalance the relationship if they are stubborn be stubborn it's a bit stupid but that's how it works a healthy relationship should be balanced so you should be not the one making them you shouldn't be

the one that shows more than the other you shouldn't be a healthy reconquest is is decided by both of you so really try to make sure that you're not in balancing the relationship and i know sometimes we feel anxious we feel unsecured because we don't know exactly if we're doing the right thing we don't

know if we should break the radio silence that's totally normal and actually um as you know if you follow my channel i have 15 minute calls in my diary for anyone who wants to have a chat with me um the idea is to really discuss your situation and sometimes you know in 15 minutes i'm

i can really provide you tips to get unstuck and watching my video is great but it's obviously very standardized and every situation is different so more than happy to have a chat and we'll discuss your situation watching video is good having a chat with the coach is even better for what if we broke up because we

didn't give enough affection that's a long title should i show it now well no it's too late so the radio sense will make the problem worse that's also a misconception that's not how it works okay that's not how it works you have to create that void it's this void that will push them that's missing tire from their

car that would push them to act there will always be a time trust me i've helped a lot of people there's always time it's just a question of timing now your timing horizon is very much i want to get back with my ex now it doesn't work like this it needs time for them to process that information

and maybe it's going to take them four weeks but maybe it's going to take them eight weeks to realize that and that's where your sort of timeline would realign right now focus on being strong on being the stubborn one it would make it would work trust me one day your ex would think it would you know

trust me because of this if you sometimes we need to remind ourselves of what's going on in their your ex's mind so they're gonna think i haven't heard from my ex in a while well usually i thought you know he would make the first move usually that's what he does has he started something has he moved on

well we think that the x is still born and considered is over actually remember that during the relationship he told something else maybe we talked you talked about always being together you talked about marriage you talk about kids and things change but they change also in both ways so they said that in the past

they decided to break up but maybe they also they could change again in the future and your stubbornness will change his mind at some point in any breakup a next always have regrets a stubborn x wouldn't necessarily show it we'll see why the difference with a normal or non-stubborn person but they always regret

so the thing is your ex wasn't thinking clearly during the breakup and what will why do you realize that is because your absence would become very powerful and you will it will make them lose that feeling of power and that's why it's actually not a chance but it's actually good to have a

step on x because all those reflex all those dynamics that now are no longer there will make them uncomfortable unstable and they will also tap into their insecurity and anxiety to get back with you how long does it take to get back with a stubborn eggs do i have a formula no but it can be

longer obviously they are the extremes so it can be longer they will come back stronger than the others so that's the thing is they might be taking a lot of time to get back with you but when they do they're gonna be really convinced and they're gonna actually drive because they're gonna be so traumatized by this

experience that they're gonna really fight for you a certain person often needs to be right for their balance to hide their insecurity so it's just try to also be subtle when they make that first move the conclusion if you exit seven you must be even more actually it's a bit stupid but that's how it is

and remember a stubborn person is actually a plus when it comes to get back with them because of this creating that new thing that sensation that is quite new for them click like button if you like the video i'll see you tomorrow bye