Emotional Burnout: How Good Men Lose Themselves | Finding Freedom Podcast

You said there's no transparency in your relationship. Well, we could argue maybe there isn't because there's not transparency with yourself, right? Whilst you can obviously extend unconditional love to another, in this case your partner, there is a categoric absence of unconditional love to yourself. It's okay. This is a safe space. It's good for you to feel this.

This is what I want, my friend. This is beautiful. The lie is that you need love. No, you don't. You are love energetically right now. Your relationship with your partner and your children has already changed cuz you've changed. >> Yeah, I believe that. >> 3 years ago, I moved to the United States and soon after a lot of trauma

surfaced in my wife got diagnosed with CPTTSD. So from that point onwards, I realized I just needed to function and postpone all my own needs. Running the household, grocery shopping, watching our three kids, and supporting my wife emotionally through this journey. I did not see any other way than pushing through and eventually waiting for

things to get better. I was often overwhelmed. I was also getting resentful towards my wife when I was at my limit and I did not have patience with her while having unexpressed expectations towards her. Finally, I saw light at the end of the tunnel. We would be able to split up the work and the

time. At the moment I wanted to start this, my wife told me that she was not sure about her sexual orientation anymore and she found out about this with another woman. So, here I am trying to figure out life which seems to all fall apart. And at the same time, I feel that there's an immense opportunity if I