The Science Behind How Women Become Horny

This is how aggressively men lose women's attraction over time. We fail maintaining women's sex drive because we forget what was proven in early 2000. Men and women's lust functions completely differently. Men start with desire. We physically want someone and then move to arousal, the body's response to attraction. For women, the first step is actually safety, then

arousal, and then desire. So, number one, safety. Being creepy is the quickest way to make someone feel unsafe around you. Now, a few years ago, a bunch of researchers literally ranked the creepiest stuff a person can do. As you can see, the top three are staring before interacting, touching too frequently, and steering the

conversation towards sex. So, avoid doing these things. But, I know what you might say. That stuff would not be seen as creepy if you'd be rich and famous, right? Well, this is a scene with the famous host Conan O'Brien. >> I love you. >> [laughter] >> Don't be creepy. >> Look at his nonverbal and paraverbal

communication. Hands pressed on each other and no showing of the palms. Head tilted down and leaned in towards her in the first minutes of the interaction. All of these signal judgmental and non-friendly behavior. And then he even elongated his words while saying, >> I love you. >> He basically acts like a sexual

predator. Conan is sometimes known for being a bit creepy with female guests. Yet, Craig Ferguson, a man with a similar job, similar age, and similar looks, somehow gets these reactions from women. >> You look very romantic. >> I do. Yeah. >> I do? >> You really want to do this? >> I do.

>> All right. >> [laughter] >> How does he do it? Well, let's take a look at his body language. In the first moments of the interaction, he leans out, a sign of disinterest, while keeping his legs near her, a sign of interest. He's already in her personal space, yet this position makes it much