How to actually quit p*rn (never relapse again)

this is why you cannot quit pornography because you don't want to it sounds very simple but it really goes deeper than that the reason why you don't want to is because you're afraid of the unknown you're afraid that maybe if you leave this addiction behind you're not going to be able to have

anything else to comfort you when you feel discomfort maybe God's calling you to some more great maybe God wants you to do something great for his kingdom but you're afraid to leave that addiction behind because it's such a part of your identity you've gotten un comfortable with it you probably don't even like doing it right you probably

feel guilty when you finish doing it but you can't figure out why you can't stop and that's because you're not willing to change your identity let me give you a scenario let's say there's two smokers right two um ex smokers one of them says I'm trying to quit smoking and the other one says I don't smoke

which one do you think is going to stay free the one who says I don't smoke because the moment you change your identity is the moment you change your actions and the moment you change your actions is the moment you change your future for example let's say one of these smokers or both of these smokers

get tempted with the same Temptation say one of them has a group of friends right they're old group of friends and they say come smoke with us and the the ex smoker the guy that says I'm trying to quit says oh I'm just trying to quit but I don't want to do that

anymore do you think the smokers are going to leave him alone or you think they're going to keep tempting him and keep testing him to see if he's going to break they're going to keep tempting him because he still is holding on to that identity that he still smokes deep down just like you saying I'm trying to quit