The Unseen Stages Your Ex Endures During No Contact

everyone wants to talk about these stages that an ex goes through during the no contact rule as if there's some one siiz fits-all solution the no contact rule about stages that your ex must go through during no cont no contact rule 101 no contact with your ex no contact always works the no contact

rule is a popular Str stages your ex goes through while in no contact and I get it I I really do it's really easy to sell this ideal that there are these stages that are stationary that every X falls into but if you really think about it that's really not how X's or breakups

in general work check this out this is a poll I conducted a few years ago where I asked my clients what attachment style they believe that their ex has 67% of respondents said that they believe that their ex had dismissive avoidant Tendencies and 20% said they believ that their exes had fearful avoidant

Tendencies so you're going to sit here and tell me that someone with a fearful avoidant attachment style is going to behave the exact same way during the no contact rule as someone with a dismissive avoidant attachment Style no you know that's not true and I know that's not true so let's stop pretending

that it's true look my job isn't to sit here and tell you what you want to hear it's to sit here and tell you what you need to hear so here it goes I'm to take you through the major stages that an X will go through from the perspective of both a dismissive avoidant and a fearful

avoidant seeing as from how our poll that accounts for basically 90% of the X's that we're looking at here let's start with the dismissive avoidant first since that seems to be the most popular type of X out there okay so what's the major difference between a dismissive avoidant and a fearful avoid in well I