allow me to de-influence you | marriage, workaholism & body image

I was just having a conversation with my sister being like, I have so much female rage in me. When I share topics on the podcast, I'm very mindful at making sure that the lessons that I'm sharing have been implemented for some time. I'm not just sharing for the heck of it. I'm sharing because I'm embodying

it.

Hello, hello, and welcome back to another episode of the 20's detox. I'm Bianca, your host, where we dive into all the things that I'm learning and unlearning in my 20s to elevate this decade. Before we get into this episode, if you are following on any streaming platforms, just make sure to follow along. And if you're on YouTube,

subscribe. I post an episode every single Tuesday relating to seasonal guidance or advice for being in your 20s. And today I really wanted to touch on a topic that I haven't put out in a while, which is called like let me deinfluence you. I felt called to doing this one just because I saw a comment on

my last video of how grateful that person was to just be like, "Hey, I loved how you made it apparent how unaffordable and extra consumeristic a lot of the fall lifestyle was." The video made me feel like, oh, we exist, too, and we can also have an aesthetic wonderful fall that doesn't need to be

about buying more, doing more, and and seeming different than we are. I definitely think just being off of Instagram and Tik Tok more has helped me come back to what really matters and get away from the unnecessary things that we do to maintain our appearance and our aesthetics. These are a few things that