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O PODER PSICOLÓGICO do SILÊNCIO – COMO IGNORAR SEM IGNORAR — Transcript · YTtoTranscript

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O PODER PSICOLÓGICO do SILÊNCIO – COMO IGNORAR SEM IGNORAR

Ítalo Ventura · 2,059 words · 10 min read · EN

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There's a way to ignore a man that doesn't look like you're ignoring him. You keep responding, you keep talking, you stay present, but something changes. And this change makes his brain go haywire. He can't stop thinking about you, he can't figure you out. And the more he tries to understand, the more trapped he becomes.

This isn't a game, this is emotional intelligence. Today I'm going to show you how to do that. Today is a day to shine. I am Itel Ventura, a relationship expert. I'm here to help you get found by a high-value man. And look, what I'm going to teach you here isn't about manipulating anyone, no. It's about you stopping

handing everything over on a silver platter, stopping responding instantly, stopping being silly, stopping feeding his ego before he deserves it. You learn to create a healthy tension, a tension that makes him invest, that makes him value you, that makes him think about you even when you're not around. Let me explain the science behind it. There is a

hormone called dopamine. You've probably heard of this before. Dopamine is the pleasure hormone, the reward hormone that makes you want more. Do you know when dopamine is released most in the brain? It 's not when a person receives what they want, it's when they almost receive it. It's the hormone of expectation and uncertainty. This triggers a

dopamine surge. That's why the movie trailer is sometimes much more exciting than the movie itself. That's why the day before the trip is much more enjoyable than the trip itself. The human brain, it's addicted to almost. What do you think will happen next? And then, and then, will I be able to do it

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? Now think about it, when a man asks you about theology, do you respond: "Oh, thank you, that's sweet." What happens? The cycle closes, he threw out the bait, you took the bite. You know when a guy disappears and then reappears? Wow, we can go out any day and you say, "Oh, yeah.

I'm free on Saturday." He threw out the bait, the cycle closed. And many times, have you noticed that the guy gives up on calling you and disappears? That he didn't want you, he wanted more dopamine. And when you closed the cycle, it's more fun. His dopamine stabilized, he was satisfied. And when someone is satisfied, they stop

chasing, because possession kills desire. But when he compliments you and you simply don't react to the compliment, when you continue the conversation as if nothing happened, his brain short-circuits. Did she see it, did she like it? Did I not do anything? Did it make no difference to her? He keeps trying to decipher, trying to understand, trying to

get a reaction from you. This is called intermittent reinforcement. It's the same mechanism that makes social media addictive. Sometimes you make a post and it goes viral, right? Sometimes not. You'll never know what will work. Sometimes you're there and something cool comes up, Sometimes it doesn't. So you remain trapped in this cycle. When you

learn to use this in relationships, you become unforgettable. Now I want to show you four practical situations, four moments where you will apply selective silence, ignoring without ignoring, and making him think about you nonstop. Now I need to tell you something. If you're new to the channel, subscribe. That's what YouTube likes most. When

someone watches and subscribes, it means a lot to me that you subscribe. When you subscribe, it shows that I generate value for you. We're approaching 3 million MAVs, 3 million high-value women. Are you a high- value woman? I know you are. So tap subscribe to activate that identity. And if you're subscribed, comment here: "Be sweet, be strong."

That's our secret code. Subscribed? Comment: "Be sweet, be strong." Already subscribed? Comment our philosophy, our secret code. Be sweet and be strong. Now come with me. Situation number One. He compliments you. He says, "Wow, you look beautiful." In that photo you posted, you know? He gives you a compliment. Most women respond immediately: "Oh, thank you." Serious? I'm glad you

liked it. And sometimes she even sends the heart emoji, and melts completely. You just gave him exactly what he wanted: validation, an inflated ego, mission accomplished. He can play video games now, he can live life now, now you have to do things differently. Imagine him thinking, "Wow, you look beautiful in that photo you posted." Then you

say, "Oh, wait a minute, I'm going to get some water and I'll be right back," and you come back talking about something else. Or maybe I'm thinking about changing my workout routine. How many times a week do you train? Do you understand? You weren't rude, you didn't ignore his message, and you didn't leave him hanging,

but you also didn't give him the reception he expected. This will keep nagging at her. Wait, didn't she see that I complimented her? She didn't say anything? Could it be that she didn't like it? Could it be that she received so many compliments that it doesn't make a difference? Is she upset with me? When are you going to use this?

I'll tell you about it soon, but let me give you three more situations where you can apply this and build your arsenal for emotional intelligence. The second situation, you could say, when he suggests a meeting, we could do something on the weekend, what do you think? Many women are already opening up their schedules, suggesting places, and

showing that they are available. It's fine to want to go out with him when he's providing value, but when he's not , you need to ignore him without ignoring him, using this technique. Then he says, we could do something any day, he just showed up out of nowhere. He's not reciprocating. Instead of you

falling, oh yes, of course. You say things like: "Have you seen that new Netflix series? I'm hooked. Did you change the subject? Didn't you say no? Didn't you ignore him by giving him the cold shoulder? You left it hanging. Is he working now? What? Does n't she want to go out with me? She didn't understand.

Do I need to be more direct? And you know what he'll do? He'll try harder, he'll be more specific. Instead of saying: "We can go out sometime, wow, let's go out?" "Do you want to go out?" Then you give it back to him. Now you make him plan something better to impress you. You haven't closed the

door. The door isn't wide open anymore, because now he needs to make an effort. Now comes a new situation here. This one is for those who are already in that tense moment of the relationship, when he tries to define the relationship. You know that question, "What do we have? Where are we going?" That's the famous

death question. Be careful with it. Many women have fallen for it. She opens her heart, she declares herself, says everything she feels, makes plans. I understand. You want him to know that you like him. But let me tell you something. When you give everything away before he conquers you, you take away his opportunity to

invest in you. A man values what he conquers, not what falls into his lap. So, if a situation arises where he asks, "What do we have?", you can answer gently, "We are two people getting to know each other. I'm here to see if you are the man I think you are." And we have to take it slow. I've

seen many of my students start dating using... This strategy isn't for playing games, but because the guy was so excited that within a week or a month of knowing each other, he already asked you to be his girlfriend. Now, here's the key point. You need courage, you need to be a MAVE to back this up. If

you do this and then think, "Oh, I regret it," you don't regret it. Now you have to be sure, "I want some time. I want to get to know you." Then you'll come back with a conversation like, "Now I'm ready, let's resume that conversation." There's no fuss, no secrets, no fear. You ca

n't be childish, silly, and naive, just wanting his approval. You have to stand by your choices because that's the right thing to do. Now let's move on to another situation. Are you enjoying this? Then leave your like. Give a like and comment if you haven't subscribed, because that's very important. If you're enjoying it,

subscribe and comment. Be sweet, be strong, because that shows you're subscribed and that... You live our philosophy of life, of Mave being sweet and strong. The fourth is when he disappears, then comes back. That's a classic, right? He goes a day without talking, then suddenly appears: "Hi, how are you?" "Shall we make plans

?" Most women do one of two things. Either she scolds: "Oh, hi, long time no see." Long time no see is you, you disappear for a day , you vanish out of nowhere, right? Or she celebrates: "Hi, I missed you so much." "Let's make plans." It starts with giving yourself away without validating, giving

too much honor to someone who doesn't deserve it. Talk to me here. Give honor to those who deserve it, in proportion to their honor. If you give too much honor, oh, let's go out. Someone who disappeared, someone who doesn't deserve that honor, he'll never value it. It's like casting pearls before swine. Imagine, he

sends a "hey, long time no see." Do you know what he replies? "Hey, everything's great here? What are you up to?" "Oh, I'm not affected by this. I'm light, I'm normal." As if nothing happened. No fight, no party, just normality. Why? Because you're not dating him to demand something. So you have to be

strategic in this demand. It's about ignoring without ignoring. It's about making him understand, "Man, I'm a jerk. I'm messing up." And she and he will wonder: "Didn't she miss me?" What was she so busy with? "With whom?" Now he'll pay more attention, he'll disappear less, and he 'll understand that if I disappear, I pay a

price, which is his silence. Now I'm going to tell you what happens in his mind when you apply these four situations. But I have a goal. The goal is 3 million subscribers. If you liked it, was it worth it for you? Then subscribe. If you're already subscribed, give it a like. And most importantly, to show

that you subscribed, comment here on our philosophy. Be sweet, be strong, stop everything. You're listening, stop everything and comment, create this habit. It will mean a lot to me, okay? Commented. Let me see here. Ah, commented. When you apply selective silence, you're not being cold, you're not playing a silly game. You're positioning yourself, you're saying without saying

that your attention has value, that your time is valuable, it's not free, that he needs to do more than send a " hi, long time no see" to have access to you. You know what's most beautiful about all this? You don't need to pretend, you don't need to be someone you're not. You just need to stop

giving everything before he deserves it. It's the principle of honor. Give honor to those who deserve it, in proportion to your honor. Selective silence isn't about being silent, it's about choosing who deserves your energy. And when you choose, listen to this, you will be chosen. Which of these four situations have you used or that has happened

to you? Comment here, I really want to know. Now I've included a video that complements this a lot. I talk about psychological tricks that mess with a man's mind, because silence is powerful, but when you combine it with tricks, the effect multiplies. It's here. Watch this video now that's appearing on the screen. It will be

difficult for him to forget you after this, okay? Subscribe to the channel, comment on our philosophy and remember, be sweet and be strong.