Sexualtherapeut erklärt Sex Drive und Beziehungsprobleme I Terra Xplore Leon Windscheid

I want to better understand where this divergence of desire comes from and, above all, what can be done about it, and that's why I'm now meeting a man who has been working on this scientifically, but also very practically, for years. Dr. Christoph Josef Allas is a clinical sex psychologist and runs a practice for couples counseling and

sex therapy here in Berlin. Is everything alright? Of course, as a psychologist, I know that it's always unfair to ask what is normal. But at the same time, I also know many people in my circle who, as a couple, wonder if there's a normal amount of sex per week, per month, to use as a

guideline? Is everything alright with us ? Do you also know that feeling of searching? Naturally. Yes, I believe that's also one of the most frequent reports in mainstream media: coitus frequency and similar topics. And then it even appears in international comparison series. Then it turns out that Italians have more sexual intercourse than the

Swiss, and so on. [snorting] These studies are generally methodologically flawed, and much more importantly, it should be pointed out from the outset that the frequency of sexual intercourse is not an indicator of sexual relationship satisfaction. The question of who has how much desire for sex did n't even exist until the middle of the 20th century; back then it

was clear that men always only wanted one thing and women usually never wanted it. Gender role education, especially the official church influence in our culture, stipulated that for women, procreation was a commandment, and arousal and lust were sinful. The official church had an optional marriage formula. With that, the priest told the woman that what