في ٥ خطوات اعرفي من رضوى الشربيني إزاي تخلي الناس تاخدك على محمل الجد

Problem number two from a girl who tells me why I always feel that the people around me don't give any consideration to me or my feelings? Sometimes the problem lies in our personality, not in them. First, you must understand that there are some points in each of our personalities that must be present

in order for the people around us to respect us and treat us well. The first point is that I speak less. The less I talk to others, the more mysterious I become, and people don't understand the mysterious. As long as I don't understand him, I will give him consideration and take him into

account until I get to the end of him, until I know his beginning from his end. So the less I speak, the more weight and consideration I have. There is a saying that if speech is silver, then silence is gold. The point is that sometimes we overlook insults, even though the first time should be the last.

We pretend we don't notice, we don't hear, we turn a blind eye as if nothing happened. So whoever thinks of doing that to me, and I make excuses for him, he hates it again, and not in the same way. He raises his voice to see my limits, so I accept. He raises his voice to see my limits, so

I accept. He raises his voice to see my limits, so what is the result? He doesn't respect me, but if he knew that his first mistake would be his last, period, he wouldn't dare wrong me and would think twice before doing so. There's another trap we fall into: seeking everyone's approval. "What does

this person want? I'll do it," "What does that person want? I'll do it," " How does he like me to look? I'll look like that," " How does she like me to act? I'll do that for her." Sometimes it escalates to stalking: "Why aren't you talking to me? I'm not asking about you." Enough with the stalking! Someone who