ЖЕСТКИЙ ОТВЕТ НА ВОПРОС "КТО ТАКОЙ АБЬЮЗЕР"! - Андрей Лукин
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Women are abusers, not men. Girlfriends are the main enemy of a happy woman. I can't get into your pants and see what you did with your genitals. What do you think prostitutes dream about deep down? Next time he'll be sitting here naked . I worked in the morning, drank some beer in the evening, and
lay down on the sofa. Women today are professional traitors. I can't have sex with you because my child can see my penis there. Well, this is how this story begins. And we, strong men, need to stand in this world to the death, fight for the truth. Before we sat down at the table, he said: “Will I
introduce myself?” There's no point in introducing yourself, you know . That is, if you are a popular person, then people already know you. Well, for example, there is Lionel Messi, Cristiano Ronaldo, Mike Tyson. They don't need to introduce themselves. Everyone already knows them. If no one knows you, what's the point of introducing yourself, you know? It's
clear. If you want, introduce yourself, what you do, tell us. Well, actually, I think that yes, I better introduce myself. Because I want people to remember more important and relevant people. But you already know me, your audience is already familiar with me somewhere. My name is Angelica Moleva, I am a psychologist, sexologist, and
teacher of etiquette and protocol. And today she is a defender of women's liberties. Well, why? By the way, I really love men. That's a shame. And in general, I always try to protect, respect, and love men. Sometimes from attacks by women, abusers. I recently recorded a podcast on this topic and talked about how very
often women are the abusers, not men. Mm, how does a woman manifest herself? Tell me about the situation. Here is a situation where a woman is an abuser, a woman is an abuser situation, well, in fact, women, men are abusers, they are not particularly different. This is probably more of a behavioral habit, yes, a
definition, and, a certain, probably, suppression of a person’s boundaries, yes, an encroachment on a person’s existing boundaries, disrespect, and, let’s say, the desire to prove that you are right in everything, excessive control, all these are obligatory inclinations. Yes. Here. And, naturally, they manifest themselves in both men and women. Yes. There are women who are directly abusive,
but most often these women call them women with balls. Yes. We're used to these names, yes, but in general, more often than not, behind a woman who's an abuser, there's hidden childhood trauma from the woman herself, from when she was depressed, from when she spent a long time carrying everything on herself. And then
at some point she spread her wings and said: “Either it will be like this, and I will show my power.” Yes. She cut off her man's balls and sewed them on herself. Yes, I'm not saying that this is good, but sometimes women don't know how to change. And, unfortunately, this happens. I think this is
terrible. It's terrible, of course. You know, all the women I talk to say to me, they say: "I want a powerful man, so that when I walk in with him, when we're sitting in a restaurant, talking, he says: "I want a powerful man, so that when he walks into a room, everyone understands who's
boss, so that he takes responsibility, ensures safety." I say: "Are you ready to obey such a man unquestioningly, to do everything he says from start to finish? No, I'm not ready. I say: “So what then? You want a powerful man, but you’re not ready to submit?” Well, that is, a woman finds herself a
powerful man, cuts off his balls, makes a kitten out of him, and then he becomes uninterested in her, and she, well, sort of , yeah. You know, even I have a pretty strong character, very strong. I just, well, as I would say, cut it off, yes. But even after a few days of a
woman’s family life, I begin to live by her rules. That's why I'm single. Okay, well, you'll look better if you tuck your shirt in. But I think it would be better for us to go straight ahead . I was right, you know? Well, Andrey, I think a man's strength is n't shown by tucking in his
shirt or going there. I believe that a man’s strength is manifested in his ability to bear responsibility, in his ability to take responsibility. And now I don’t want to take responsibility for women’s problems, but rather take responsibility first and foremost for your own life, and for how you can organize the space around you, for
how you can organize, in principle, all areas of your life: work, personal life, and so on. And the strength of a man, it does not manifest itself. This is what he slammed his fist on the table, right? And that's all. And now the whole world should lie at his feet . Yes. And how does it manifest itself? Are you okay if we
interrupt each other from time to time? I'm okay. If you're okay, then I'm okay. Me too, okay. I like kzhelo delo. How then is a man's strength determined? If not like this, how is it determined? But why do we always think that a man is precisely a physical manifestation of strength? M. This is a natural fact.
Natural, yes. Well, look, in men, look at what testosterone is, a hormone, yes, it’s simpler, why is it needed so that we feel ourselves correctly in space. This is a reaction to certain events that happen around. This is the most powerful stimulator of physical strength, bodybuilders and so on. Why do they put it there, right? And,
accordingly, in a man who has the lowest testosterone, his testosterone is 5 times higher than in a woman at the maximum. Yes. Mzhy is a biological fact. But why should family be defined by force? What else ? How a man does this is still the ability to take responsibility, to be responsible for one’s actions, words
and deeds. Yes. Physical force, you most often use it when it needs to be used, when they ask you to nail down a shelf, I don’t know, open a bottle of champagne, well, in extreme cases, open a condom that is difficult to open. Yes. But basically, Andrey, you understand perfectly well that a man is
not words, but actions. Yes. And we, women, we are not watching that, proper women, raised by her, understanding, appreciating men, they do not watch what you say, they watch what you do. And this is not about physical strength. OK. Well, I mean, that's one aspect that's very important. This is about men. Strength is about men,
naturally. Let's do it this way, tell me something like this, I mean, you probably have a lot of girls at work who come to you with different questions. Super. Let's discuss it. Tell me about some outrageous situation in which a woman came to you, in which she complained about her husband. I've always gotten used to
calling men men. Men at our factory. You are a man too. Well, yes . Yes. I still try to call men men, because we are used to men being more like, you know, Sanya, a hard worker at the factory. Subspecies. Yes. Subspecies. It's like a woman has, there are women, there are chicks. Here's what it looks
like. That's pretty much it, yes. I believe that, uh, a girl who raised herself, a girl who created herself - that's already a woman, and also a girl who also has children, that's already a woman, but a girl is still a category of those who have not given birth. Yes. Here. And chicks, well, that's already your
specific category. This is the maximum consumerism on Patricks , you know, about consumption. Look, I can bring it to you. Why chicks? I do n't want to offend anyone. Don't think twice. It's just a guise of the well-mannered, beautiful girls that I love and adore. Why chicks? Let's take 1,000 such subspecies. And I want one Hermes handbag. They want everything
1,000%. Dubai has a Hermes handbag. A certain way of dressing, certain things, a certain mindset, certain places where they want to relax, certain restaurants where they go. They are no different. If you come to Patriki in the evening, for example, for a walk, you can see there a concentration of a subspecies called
chicks, who are in no way different from each other. Nothing. Ah, well, on Patrick's Day, for a long time now, there's probably been a place where it's not different, or rather, let's say, it's not distinguished by being a place where women, but with a high IQ level, with a high level of understanding of
who she is, and so on. Yes, yes. Yes, it's just a matter of appearance. They're all the same, but they're all special, but they all want the same things. Girls, do you hear what he's saying? If he approaches you on St. Patrick's Day to film a podcast, don't refuse. Run, I am the main enemy. The main enemy for
him is the elk. The main enemy. Fine. Where are the women then? Say it in it. A woman stands in the kitchen barefoot, er, in a long dress, here with a pot belly, preparing food for her beloved husband. The TV is off. Here. The mouth is closed 24/7. Happy, joyful, contented. Bring me my shoes, I'm leaving
here. Just kidding, just kidding. Well, it does happen. You know, I’ll say this: probably every man has his own specific portrait of a woman that he wants to see next to him. The same thing is that every woman has a certain portrait of a man that she wants to see next to her.
Tell me, what portrait of a man do you see next to you? I'm wondering if one of the operators might want to hit on you, or maybe me, for example? Yes, we need to understand whether we are approaching the goal or not. You are already in my age category . You might be too young for me.
May be. The chick is maturing. Okay, so older, I like older. Okay, let's go. But I can't talk about myself. Let me tell you this. I have my opinion, this will be my opinion. We communicate absolutely only with you. I will say this: mm, every woman still, yes, has her own specific understanding of a man. In general, I often
give women this task: describe, write down 50 points about your ideal partner. Come on, tell me 10 things about your ideal partner. You and I No, I'm interested, you and I are communicating. That is, we can talk about someone, but it will be interesting if we express our opinion. I also say that everything I
say here is exclusively my opinion. If I am right or wrong somewhere, the audience will judge. OK then . First. Kind. Kind, sympathetic, sociable, with a sense of humor, responsible, accomplished, with high family values, sexy, in demand and desired by me. It's a certain level of chemistry that I have, yes, a request. And, probably, the
tenth point, let him be loving children and animals, because for me these are important moments, which for me in general is the kindness of a man, this kindness is not about mumbling, right? Kindness is about a state of, well , an internal, let's say, deep heart chakra. This is about what a person
brings to the world, how he perceives this world, how he treats people and how he treats me. This is important to me because there are men who have all these, uh, points that I mentioned, but he will be like this, you know, no kindness. It’s this harshness, this look, when you look at him, you’re already
afraid of him. Well, for me a man shouldn't be like that. You have a kind look. Yes. Although I know that you are strong, you are responsible, you have, yes, such, ah, the traits of a male leader, but you have kindness, it is present in your eyes. And this kindness is important to me
first and foremost, not only in a man, but in people in general. How is responsibility manifested? Responsibility is being accountable for your actions, words and deeds. Give an example of when you communicated with a man and realized that he was responsible. Ah, yes, there are many such examples. I'm Super, choose any one
you want. Let's say, ah, I have such an example, a man whom I know, ah, it turned out that he separated from his wife, took his two children and is raising them alone. Yes. Instilling all human skills, leadership skills and skills specifically for children, who receive them from their father, mother and father all in
one person. This is the ability to take responsibility and you bear this responsibility throughout your entire life. And taking all these points into account, this man is also an excellent provider himself, incredibly charismatic, brutal, sexy, and so on, yes, and a man who knows how to combine all these qualities. Yes. This is what
I consider the ability to take responsibility. OK. Eh, do you agree with the statement that you can only take responsibility for something you own 100%? What do you own 100%? Let me give you an example. I'm borrowing your car. Well, I just take the keys, leave now, get in the car, drive and smash this car. Uh-huh
. The police come to you and say: "It's your fault." Yes. You say: "No, it's not me." No, I do n't care who it is. The cars are yours, the documents are yours. Yes. Yes. Are you ready to buy a car that leaves the garage at night on its own and drives around the city, basically
collecting your fines? Of course not. Super. Do you agree that you can only take responsibility if you own it 100%. No, I don’t agree with you, because we probably only own 100% of our name, given to us at birth by our parents, and the air we breathe. and your physical, emotional vessel. Everything else, in essence, does not
belong to us; our opinion still belongs to us, which is influenced by society and which very often, unfortunately, changes, especially when you do not have a personal boundary for understanding your own truth. If a person does not have his own opinion, he can be convinced of anything. What do you think are the
right truths for women today? You said that you need to understand your own truths. Each one has their own. Are there any common truths among women that can distinguish a good woman from a bad one, for example? In general, women are divided into categories: good and bad. People in general, in principle, are not divided into categories of
good and bad. It all depends on the situation, right? You can, I don’t know, you’re walking down the street, there’s a little kitten lying there, you can walk past it and help it, right? Or you can pass by him and not help him. This is not a woman who gives birth to a child from
one man, marries another and does not tell him about it. Good or bad? This does not determine, again, whether it is good or bad, Andrey. This only determines her level of awareness and responsibility towards her child and towards her man. By the way, I had such situations with my clients. Oh, that's cool. Tell me some other one.
Let's. We were just starting with this. You have a lot of women at work. Let's discuss some situation that recently happened with one of your clients. You do n't have to name names and so on. It's just this exact situation. I'm interested in what you work with, how it's connected, when a woman or a girl came and started
solving some problems with you. Well, you know, first of all, there are a lot of problems. But they are still divided into clients’ pain points, as strange as it may sound, yes, yes . There are questions that relate to sexology, yes, I work as a sexologist . This is, naturally, the absence of
orgasms very often, yes, this is the boring sex of family life, it’s all the same , routine and so on. There are psychological issues. And I, as a psychologist who chooses certain areas to work with, for me, for example, the areas that are important are relationships, this is female self-realization. Not from a
business point of view, but from a search for oneself, one’s place in life. Come on, give me some example from a relationship. Well, what do you want? Well, go ahead and ask me yourself.
I recently had this situation. A girl approached me and said, "Lika," I want to pump up my femininity. I want to be more of a pushover. I'm tired of putting this off. But she earns colossal sums of money, so to speak. She doesn't depend on her husband at all. I have a husband, a child, and everything. I ask, "How are you doing?" and I
start asking her, " Tell me about your life in general. How do you rate it?" And often I give my clients completely banal equipment. This is a balance wheel. Have you heard about her? Yes, sure. Well, the balance wheel is where certain spheres are divided. There's just money, let's say, relationships, communication, hobbies. And there you simply
assign points for a certain category and see in which areas you fail. That is, if your wheel is straight, everything is okay. If this whole story has just started for you, then you can already clearly see in what area of your activity things are happening, and, so to speak, failures, yes, once again. Here. And
she turned to me, I start talking to her , this is my first question. I have a very deep understanding of people's problems, and sometimes problems that people themselves don't even realize. Well, we know how to highlight each other. What's the problem? I ask her a question. I say, "When was the last time you had sex?" Yes.
She says, "So why are you asking me this question?" Most likely a long time ago. And I say, "Well, I'm just curious. I understand that you have a certain tension. I notice it in your facial expressions, I notice it in your gestures, in certain patterns of behavior, and something else." She's like: "2
years ago, a young girl, 32 years old." I say: " What is the reason?" She tells me this situation: she got pregnant, and many men experience this kind of transition. They say: “I don’t want to, you’re pregnant there, I can’t have sex with you because my child can see it there, my penis is there.” Well, this is how this
story begins. In fact, it seems funny, but we won’t be major anymore, yes, but this problem is really very pressing. And sometimes it seems funny from the outside, but it really hurts a man deeply , and they start having problems, with erections and generally psychologically, they simply stop wanting their woman. And she turned to me and said:
“Anzhelika, well, I started asking him these questions, and the tears started, they started, well, I thought that this was normal.” That is, she gave birth to a child, is breastfeeding him to this day, and he does not want sex. She says: “Well, now I’ll finish breastfeeding, and everything will be back to normal.” Yes.
At the same time, she runs a business on the side ? Yes. Parallel. Yes. Her business is going great. All. I speak. So you're making millions. Yeah. And when raising a child, I say, I think that sex should wait a little while longer , until you stop breastfeeding. I say: "Why did you
change the role of a beloved wife to the role of a mother? Is that the point? You know, that's such an interesting question. How do you think a woman's fulfillment in terms of business affects her relationship with a man? Andrey, I knew you would ask me this question. They are both businessmen, and they have been
together for many years. And that is, business initially, when they met, he had his own business, she had her own business. And that is, they already met as established individuals. That's it. And the birth of the child, it was planned. The birth of the child did not interfere with either his growth or her growth. That is, everything is
okay. That is, the situation here was not about that at all. But here she had a situation of precisely a change of roles. He stopped seeing in her the beloved woman he wants. He saw in her a mother, because she switched so much to her child that when she was three weeks pregnant,
she already began talking to her tummy . Well, that's normal for women. There is my baby, my sweet, my good one. That's it. Maternal instinct, maternal instinct. But not every man is ready to interpret this maternal instinct normally. And the man begins to push himself into the background and think, well, damn, I'm a
third wheel here, I'm not needed here. And when the woman also begins to confirm this with her actions, her lack of desire for sex, well, everything here, everything. Yeah. So, we worked on this situation, naturally, we resolved this situation. So, we had to work for two months. We brought back libidad, sexuality, desire, we worked on her attitudes,
brought her back, from a mother, we turned her back into a woman who, first and foremost, loves herself and loves her husband. Only then did she finally understand that motherhood is the next step. Yeah. Cool. Cool. You know why I mentioned self-fulfillment? Ah, that's an interesting point. I also have a lot of wealthy friends, and I
communicate with women myself. What's the point? For example, I start talking to a girl. Yeah. She's always busy At work. That's all. So why do I need a girl like that? I don't. I mean, I work, I earn money, and it takes up a lot of my energy . I've only been recording podcasts this
month, more than fifteen. Yeah. And I need some kind of support. I mean, I need support I can lean on, right? That's like friends in certain situations, a girlfriend. Uh, if a girl also works, is self- fulfilling, and so on, then I can't lean on her because she also works. Either she works, or she has
no energy. That is, I have nowhere to recharge as a man. That's why, when I was analyzing and thinking: "So, what kind of girl do I need, one who also works, yes, or one who doesn't work. I realized that it’s definitely not working.” Uh, but for me, a very important point here is that I’m covering all of the
girl’s external problems, but I need her to cover my internal needs. And here’s a Freudian flaw. Come on. Look, you know perfectly well that I work too. Well, I have a son. Yeah. Besides my work, I have a huge number of communications. I’m constantly training, and traveling. I’ve been abroad there or four times
, right? And the point is that, and I think that here, Andrey, it’s very important to understand, or rather, to make your own list of priorities. That’s one. Secondly, a woman’s most important priority is family. It’s herself, Andrey, and only then family. If she doesn’t need herself, her family won’t need her. You understand that
we women, we are the source of energy for ourselves first and foremost. And if we don’t have energy inside, we won’t have the desire to cook delicious food. We won’t have the desire to wake up our beloved man in the morning with kisses under the covers and without a blanket, you understand? We won’t have
anything at all, in principle, if there is no energy inside. And first of all, love yourself. I agree, of course. That is, first of all, we must love ourselves. We must first of all make this internal resource for ourselves to fill. And only after that, please, to our beloved man, children, mother, friends and
so on. And how is a woman’s internal resource filled ? In different ways. First of all, communication with other women, but precisely the right communication. Listen, it seems to me that girlfriends are the main enemy of a happy woman. Depends on what kind of friends. Looking at an example. So, I’m talking to girls, right? And the girl
says: “I met a guy.” Yeah. Yeah. A trainer. Yeah. I told my girlfriends that he’s a fitness trainer, and they immediately started telling me that he’s a womanizer, leave him, this is crazy, how can you date him? I say: “One question.” I say: “And they with Do you know him personally?" She says, "No, I don't."
You see? That is, a woman always gives advice through the prism of her emotional experience, most often, you see? That is, girlfriends are the main enemy of a happy woman. Andrey, depending on the girlfriends who are next to you, agree, if you have the same values as you, then this will definitely not happen
. Come on, look, have you watched Dom 2? Well, once upon a time, yes, about 15 years old. Oh, my God, not 15, cross, urgently cross. Wait. About 22 years ago. So, uh, Sex and the City. Yeah, yo, these are Desperate Housewives. The whole package. Ah, well, I'm Dom 2. Come on. I didn't watch it on a regular
basis, it was like I was watching something intermittently . I was just hoping that you would at least, well, say something: "No, I haven't watched it." And I'll say: "But my girlfriends watched it." You know, that's it I'll tell you this: I'm proud of the girls, women, and friends who surround me. Because all of my friends, honestly, they
all have healthy family values and priorities. They've all found their place in life, more or less. Some found their place in everyday life , some found themselves, uh, in business, some are employees and are climbing the career ladder. But the point is, all of my friends are truly so deep, so fulfilling in a
good sense—yes, that's the word— we don't have that, you know, like that. When we meet up with girls, we usually don't have stupid conversations like, what did she do? Who looked at her ? Whose man did she steal, and who did she do that with? We talk, we really talk about the things that fill us up.
Girls, where do you go to do yoga? Girls, what book did you read last? Let's go to the movies. Let's go. I'm just now heading to Branch, where I met the girl. There were about 20 of us there. And so we met, everyone was talking, everyone told us what they do. When I
listened and sat there with my mouth open, I said: "Well, how can these women not fulfill themselves? One has a diamond business, one grows lavender fields and makes cosmetics from them , and another has a business community. And you sit and listen, well, how can you sit and talk among these women, well, about any
topic. Here you are among them and you are fulfilled. You understand that they are telling you things that are inside you, but this flow of energy, you leave from there, you try, you already want to do something differently. Being such a woman, are you able to submit to a man 100%? Yes. Here they are all married. That's it
, bezust. Well, come on. Everyone is happy, as conversations and practices have shown . Well, no , we don’t know the situation, so I can’t say anything about it. I have such, you know, practices, if they showed it, then even more so. Why did my friend say that? Look, there is a woman, let's say, a
girl, she got married, everything is calm, to an ordinary guy. They live, she raises the children at home, cooks food for him, happy and joyful. Well, the ideal format of a girl who was there 50 years ago, any woman, she was proud that she had order at home. A distortion of values has occurred. She was proud that the house was in order, her
husband was fed, and that was all. Submission to a man. What if 100 years ago a woman, I'm not even talking about 1,000 years ago, had opened her mouth and told a man how to shave properly, right? Well, that is to say, there was no such thing. Ah, but today everything is against men.
And when this happens, I’ll now explain why. Come on, come on. When a girl is just standing there, raising her children, living a wonderful, happy life, as soon as she logs into Instagram and some friend writes to her , at that moment the system starts to collapse. Let me explain. She says, "What are you doing in the kitchen?
What the [ __ ], are you cooking for him? Is he an abuser, forcing you to cook? And just imagine what's happening to a girl. You're psychologically much weaker than a man. If we're crossing the road and a cat gets hit, I'll look around, everything's safe there. Then if you people come, you'll be the first to
faint, right? You'll come home and everyone in your house will know that the poor cat was run over. Women are emotionally much weaker than men. That's why it's very easy to influence a woman. And when I say, I didn't ask about Dom 2, every prostitute's favorite movie, beauty. Yeah. The ideal format of a woman in general, with
whom you need to build a relationship. She stood on the road, married a billionaire. What do you think prostitutes dream about deep down? To become kept women. Right. Where do they get this in their heads? Where could they get this in their heads? From the movie Beauty, is this even possible? Society has turned you in. And so a woman cooking for
her man, who works, a normal guy, her girlfriends start nagging her from all sides, saying that this is not normal. Why have n't you been to Dubai? You need to go to Dubai urgently. Write to Seryozha. He likes you, he's taking you, you understand? And this, and that, in short, is what all your rils are about.
The woman starts to stagger, starts to stagger. And when the man comes home instead of having dinner with him, it means the woodpecker starts pecking at him. You're somehow different. That's it, the family is falling apart. Well, because women today are essentially professional traitors. And what about your poor childhood traumas, I would
work on you, oh my God, what happened to you ? What happened? Come on, come on, let's discuss it. Why are women professional traitors? Do you want to discuss it? You know, I'll tell you this. I'll say, firstly, there are different categories of women who have cheated on men, of course, but you're telling me that
women aren't professional traitors. Well, professional traitors are a different category. Why? There are different types of cheating. That's one thing. No, that's not true. Any cheating is, in fact, cheating. So, you've never cheated on women? Never. Never. Not even once. Not even once. I'll give you an example. You promised to mark your stories and then said, "I
can't do it, I have this, I have that," and so on. That wasn't cheating. Put some music here. You simply took it out of context. There were certain circumstances. I do n't even remember that, because when someone writes this to me, I'll explain why it works this way. I always give my assistant's contact information and
say, "Write to him about all these issues." We mark everyone, please. I'll say again that cheating happens, firstly, it's different, it's a convenient position, it happens. It's a lie, sometimes it's just a lie. I've just lied a little. But here, you know, like what you're saying, yes, there are different categories of women,
honestly. There are women who don't want to cook, there are women who don't want to do anything at all. I get asked this a lot, apparently on Instagram. Those are probably the majority, but then again, it depends on who you meet and along the way, you know? I rarely meet such women along the way
, because my circle, and, I say again, the people I surround myself with, are people with healthy family values and priorities. And even if I have literally a couple of girls who are single, were married, and are raising children and so on, yes, they also have healthy family values. And most often, the
divorce was due to a man. Men. Um, give me an example. He cheated, cheated, betrayed , grew a lot in money , and this story began, I allow myself everything, I can do everything. Yeah. Everything doesn't show. Look, I always say this: "And before you demand, Uh-huh. It's best to create the conditions."
Yeah. Give me an example. A huge number of, uh, examples can be given . Well, that is, a normal man to begin with. You are a normal man, we have. Absolutely. Why are you still alone? It's hard for me to find a woman for life, because women are professional traitors. Maybe because you have a
lot of attitudes. You were once dumped. A girl once dumped you. After that, you were offended by all women. You are your mother's most beloved son. Here they are already bringing up physical features. I don't deny it. Come on, I don't deny it. Come on, pump me up right now. I don't deny it. If I had a beloved woman, I would be
happy. I would now be sitting at home on the stove, drinking beer with beer with my balls cut off , smiling. And life is wonderful. But I will explain why I do n't have a woman. We live in a very strange time. 1,000 years ago, finding a woman was not a problem. If you are a normal
man, you live now, Look. And now, for example, as a normal man, I have never raised my voice to a woman. I haven't even raised my voice , let alone shaken hands. For me, this is completely inadequate behavior for a man. I can resolve any external issues a woman may have, but it's hard for me to find a woman for life.
Why? First of all: women all think of themselves as princesses. Let me explain, have you seen the movie Cartoon One? Yes. Good. Princess Jasmine. Yeah. Her behavior is disrespectful, she doesn't put her father in anything. Not 100%. There's nothing to argue about. We can just turn on a cartoon. When your father tells you: "You have to do this." And you
tell him: "No, you avoid leaving the house." This is disrespect, not neglect, there is complete disregard, a little maximalism, don't forget, how old, it doesn't matter." Well, that is, and look at how women are raised. Yes, you can tell your own, you can not listen to your father, a father is equal to a man, equal to a father. Not to listen to
a man, not to pay attention to what he says. How does Smin communicate with other people there? Look at what girls grow up to be . And I need a prince on a white horse who will come and save me, me, a special princess. Although women today are just average ordinary girls. Ordinary girls.
It depends on who you are looking at and where you see what. Ordinary girls. What is unusual for you? Let's make an advertisement for you. What kind of bride do we need for Andrey? Let's. For me, an unusual woman today is in a good sense. A girl who has never been on Instagram.
She doesn't have Instagram, she hasn't looked Dom 2, she has no girlfriends, she hasn't watched Sex and the City, Desperate Housewives, or Pretty Woman—all of that is out of the question. She was raised purely on Soviet cartoons, a proper woman, the way she should be, when it's time, and so on. She doesn't try to
change a man. She doesn't try to change a man . She accepts me as I am, values myself, values my inner qualities, and loves the people around her selflessly. And most importantly, she doesn't exist. That's why I'm alone. That's why I'm alone. And because girls today are super-spoiled. I'm special, I'm such a
beauty. And why is that bad? I'll explain for a man. Because girls think they can get whatever they want, and before that, just being pretty was enough for them . Where do you see them like that? That's not normal. Honestly, it seems to me that you're grazing in the wrong place. Andrey, that's a
comfortable position altogether. Not in the right place. Where , where, tell me, should I go? Where? Tell me, I'll go. I very often meet women, in fact, who say that there are no real men. With men, it's a separate conversation in the quick realization of a woman. We are walking different paths, you understand?
Yes, it is absolutely the fault of men who are generally unmoving today. Look at men today. Well, most are good, all the men I meet are wonderful. The average man is a man who worked in the morning, drank a beer in the evening, and lay down on the couch. Do you realize how many of the men you
communicate with go to the theater? All. Wonderful. That's because these are a certain level of people. I tell you, I have such girlfriends, I have such men. And these men are not my men, they are my girlfriends' husbands, these are my colleagues of some kind, these are my friends, these are people who are constantly
developing. And that's great. Yeah. I communicate with you the same way. I see what you do. Yeah. I know that you do too. You lie on the couch from time to time, but your main function is to want to earn money. I see how you move, I see how you... In fact, I'm a sick person.
You grow up, and we're all sick. I'm on the couch, and when I start lying down, my conscience already gnaws at me that I'm not working. This is the disease of ambition. But this is an inner emptiness, a lack of love, they told me, this lack of being underloved, just that . And at some point I became
overloved. I'm underloved, and that's why I work a lot . Well, I don't deny that. If I'm a sick person, yes, to earn and win love 100%. I agree with this. But then again, you see, if it stimulates and moves you, that's good. We don't have health. What should I do about this?
Where can I look for a woman? Come on, let's arrange microcoaching. Where should you look for a woman? Yes, microcoaching is possible. We can discuss some of my guidelines. I'm not ready to discuss your guidelines. Yes, open ones are possible. I see that you are a narcissist. A narcissist. Well, of course, what is that?
There are certain narcissistic deviations. They exist. And let me tell you this: we are now in a time of widespread narcissism. And what is narcissism? Men are an example. A narcissist is a person, not necessarily a man. Yeah. And it can be both a man and a woman, who has certain psychological childhood traumas. Well,
let's just give an example. Well, let's give an example, a narcissist is a person who loves himself, adores himself. Adoring yourself is right, don't look, there is inflated self-esteem, there is healthy self-esteem. Yeah. I agree. Healthy self-esteem is when you think of yourself according to your results. I agree. And inflated self-esteem, certain
inflated demands on yourself, considering yourself better than others. Yeah. Somewhere to belittle the dignity of other people. Yeah. You don't have to say it outwardly, you can do it internally. Oh, damn, she's so-and-so. Oh, he can't do anything at all, that is, he's always building up a tamga and so on. That is, devaluation in a
sense. Yeah. And, naturally, an infringement on the personal boundaries of another person. That is, if I force a woman to cook for her, I'm infringing. You understand, but a woman who loves, respects, and values you, she doesn't need to be forced to cook. She doesn't need to do that. If you meet a man with the right values, mind you
, for himself, and a man who has the right values, which you also value as a man, that's it, the puzzle fits together. Well, and you already know my criteria. Well, I'll just give you an example: yes, I'm 32 years old, I have a job, I work there 2-3 hours a day, I have a child, for whom
I don't have a nanny, I take care of my child myself, I take him to extracurricular activities, I take him to school. Do you know that I've moved to Moscow now ? Yes. Despite all this, I travel, and despite all this, I build my own communications there. I have time for hobbies, I have time
to read a book, I have time to see my friends. And in all this schedule, I have a lot of time and a great desire to devote my time to the man I love. Uh-huh. Oh, okay . And can you give me an example of how you decided that I'm a narcissist? Well, I can see it. Do
you love yourself, adore yourself, respect yourself? All your reels say that even if it's acting, we consciously choose a certain role in order to show it. You didn't choose the role of the victim, that you, the poor thing, are being bullied there, I don't know, you're sitting there in the trash with a sign: "Chip in
Andrey there for a new one reels or podcasts." Do you understand? You can, of course, but you chose a certain acting style. Yeah. The dominant one. You can tell by it. But look, there are, I'm saying, there are many different aspects. Why? For example, I'll just tell you one more thing, this narcissism doesn't hinder you. If it
weren't for it, you wouldn't have achieved the results you have. That's the question. But is it good or bad? It's neither good nor good. The choice is yours. But for society. And what difference does it make to you what's for society? You don't walk around there, I don't know, curious, like a trash can. You don't turn it over.
What do you mean? Well, here it goes, off it goes. What do people think of me? Everyone loves and adores you. Some laugh at you, some like you madly , some you madly dislike. Who laughs at me? These are my sweet buns. I'm in your head. Yes, yes. I always say good the phrase that
people who talk about me, good or bad, it doesn't matter. I don't even know anything about them , they talk about me. Okay, let's get back to my narcissism. That is, if I, if a man loves himself, does that mean he's a narcissist? No. Okay, give me an example. I'll give you a separate consultation,
which you'll pay me for, and I'll definitely analyze your profile. I'll definitely think about it. I decided to hit on you, so the first step is this podcast. The second step is a consultation. Do you understand? That is, this is my strategy. See how you say: "I'm good." Look, I definitely like your strategies.
Yours work. In general, everything works for me. Yes, I have no doubt. I only do what works. I tweaked mine here. There. Yes. Ah, okay. Let's discuss another interesting situation. Make a suggestion. By the way, here you are I started saying, let's say, yes, that girls are like that . I still think so. And
until you take off the glasses of your fears, attitudes, some kind of prisms, pains and so on, you will always see what you want to see. I'll just explain to you. If a woman wants, and, let's say, a man dumped her, Yeah. The first one dumped, the second one dumped. Well, most often, if we look, she
grew up either without a father, which, most likely , the girl's mother's father dumped, or she grew up with a father who drank, I don't know, was a parasite and all the rest. Yeah. How is this connected? Tell me. Childhood traumas are very strongly connected. A girl's true first love is her father.
And even when a girl grows up, and it happens that she unconsciously begins to choose a man, and whose portrait will be similar to her dad, and not physically, but prophysically. Let's say there was a dad and a cheater, she chooses a cheater for herself, and so on. She can choose a man who will
say: "Is this treason for me? This is generally not there, I have never in my life." But in fact, do you think I cheated in a relationship? I can’t get into your underwear and see what you did with your genitals in the other direction. Listen, I’ll tell you this, I think that no, I didn’t
cheat in a relationship, but if this happens, but he didn’t have a relationship, if Well, I had, well, I had, no, there were more, I had a relationship for a year. Yes, yes, yes, yes. And then you were dumped. Ah, no, it’s impossible to dump me at all. You know, you can’t dump, uh, a
person who, well, accordingly, look , you can dump. Let’s put it this way. Look, what kind of person are we left with? Come on, tell me what kind? Look, I think that a man should never be the first to apologize to a woman, never about anything. Why? I’ll explain. Woman No, look, it’s
simple here. A woman does not perceive and does not respect any form of weakness. If you catch your a man cheating, the worst thing a man can do is start acting like a man. Forgive me, my dear, excuse me, I'm starting to pay off. Forgive me, I'll take care of everything. This is the behavior of a
confident man. No, no. A woman senses weakness. I'm superior. He messed up. He messed up. I will decide what to do with you. That's it. A woman doesn't respect any form of weakness. But I know cases, I know cases where a man was caught, a man was caught cheating, right in the act, and he laughed it off.
Yeah. It happens. We'll discuss it later. Come on, so what? And it worked. I had a case like this when a man, not me, or rather, my client, you know what the case was? His wife comes home, and he, you know, starts developing with his girlfriend. Yeah. And at some point he got confused. He
says: "So join in, prove that you're better than her." Yeah, you understand? And Yes, and she joined in. No, she didn't join in. She got divorced and won back 90% of his property from him . That's why I, and now we've moved on to the topic of marriage . Well, look, well, in fact,
if you look at the situation again, that is, a man should never apologize to a woman in any situation, even if he's wrong. Narcissus, that's what narcissists say. No, that's an opinion. Well, that is, look, it's right. Why? Because a woman doesn't respect any form of weakness. Do you agree with that? Why do you think that an apology is
weakness? It is weakness. I don't agree with you. If you look, if I did this, I thought it was right. That's it, I shouldn't apologize for the fact that it was right at that moment. Milt desire is unconscious. None. If I'm not a fleeting desire, it's not the same story, you understand? This is a
convenient position, right? It's a fleeting desire. Well, I went with my girlfriends on a whim, okay? No. Well, I mean, to a man... Look, let me give you an example. Okay? Give me a simple example. Oh, let me ask you a question. Do you think a woman has the right to criticize her man?
No. Correct? She has no right at all. Does a man in this case have the right to criticize a woman? No. Yes, he absolutely has the right. And in his own form, which I consider this to be everything is correct. Well, I mean, look, man, I'm talking about mutual respect and love. A
person who loves will never rudely say: "Like, your ass is fat." But what if a woman says that to a man? A woman has no right to criticize a man in any form. Now I'll explain why. I can tell you. Look, filming is pure patriarchy, men. Support, yes, patriarchy. Well, that's right. Women want this. In fact, you
want this. You're contradicting yourself now. No, I'm not contradicting you. I'll explain to you why now. Go ahead. Look, you say: "I want a woman who doesn't open her mouth, who agrees to everything , like Gerasiv agrees to everything." Yeah. Your words. At the same time, you want a woman who is smart, a beautiful
woman, who knows how to cook, and make things look fabulous. No, I don't know, multifaceted. So, you don't need a woman who... Well, it makes sense that all the women I talk to have somehow taken courses on [ __ ]. Well, that means you've most likely grasped this desire. I'm ready to sponsor it.
I understand everything. So, you say that I want someone like this. It doesn't interfere with others. What exactly doesn't interfere? Here, look, why can I criticize a woman? Well, look, first of all, today's society is against men. I'll explain, explain. Look, it's simple. If someone bursts in here now, well, look, I Weighing 100 kg. Who do you think is more
dangerous to society, me or you? Well, you compare, of course, me. I mean, if I run into some shopping center with an axe, well, people will start to feel uncomfortable. Well, that's in a general sense. I mean, men are dangerous, especially antisocial ones. I'm super antisocial. When I left the service, everyone called me and said,
"Andrey, you're a [ __ ], what are you doing? Well, I'm antisocial." I say, "I don't care what you think. I think so." Well, there is a core, so to speak. It's hard for me to bend to public opinion. There is a core, said the man in the pink T- shirt. My stylist picked this out. I
like it. I like it. Do you like it? Okay, sure. Say hi from TV. It's good that this is my podcast. I can come here even naked. Next time he'll be sitting here naked . Look. And this crocodile on his chest will cover his intimate areas. Yes. And look how it all works.
And to criticize, that is, it's clear, society is built against men, that is, there are anti-social men who are dangerous. There is a goal. The goal is to make men castrate men. So, there are pets, a cat. A cat. Now, if only... Have you ever had cats, something castrated someone there . No.
There is a cat. You castrate a cat, and he is completely different. He doesn't care about anything. Can I swear? Well, of course, that's your podcasts. He doesn't give a [ __ ] about anything. He lies around, sunbathes. He's the most convenient man for a woman. He does what I say, there's no need for
that. That's why you said before that you're henpecked. I'm henpecked. You said yourself that you need to tuck in your T-shirt, see the car. That's why I'm alone, because I start living with a woman, and she starts cheating on me, you know, trying to do everything she can. You understand, Andrey, in any relationship, people adjust to each
other. A man shouldn't adjust under any circumstances. I've heard these expressions from men who own such huge... I beg you. The more success and money a man has, the less self-confident he is . A man's self-confidence decreases proportionally with the increase in success in the usual form of money. I personally witnessed a situation where a
dollar millionaire asked his wife for permission to go to the bathhouse with friends in the evening. A huge number of such things are not corrected by chance rather than by rules. A huge number of such examples. You know, Andrey, I'll interrupt you here , I'll tell you a fact. And in my circle of friends, there are a huge number of
men who have achieved enormous results and indicators in their status. Wonderful, wonderful. And I'll tell you this: these men, they are so complex, and the more status and position a man has achieved in society, I'm not even just talking about money, but about status, yes, and about his position, it's more complex for them. And the most interesting thing,
the most interesting thing is that even these men adapt to their women, but this only depends on how wise the woman next to him is and who can do this not so much as break him, but make, what does it mean to adapt. Let's put it in a definition. That is, let me finish the thought, why society is
against men, antisocial men are dangerous. It's unclear what to expect from me . I need to be made convenient, castrated, so that I become completely predictable, understandable. Why is it black and white? Well, that's a fact. Well, that is, look, there is An antisocial man, dangerous in and of himself. He needs to be made comfortable, so I
don't ask questions, don't show activity, be predictable. And why does a woman, when she enters into a relationship with a man, start changing him, start making him comfortable? You understand how she wants to be comfortable. If a man, even just once, even once, caves to any of this female manipulation, and a man can't
recognize female manipulation, how can women survive in a harsh, brutal male world? That's why you are professional liars. Nature made you this way. Yes, this is wisdom called nature. Yes, it is in the fact, whatever you want to call it, but it is deception. When a woman, look, women, look, when... Yes. Yes. When a woman,
how can she resist a man? A strong man is worth a woman. And if women didn't have a point in a man earning money, you will get by with little, you understand? I agree. I absolutely agree. If you want to be by the queen's side, then you have to match her. If you drive a Bentle, So you have to
earn money to support this Bentle, you understand? And this applies to absolutely everything. The thing is, women today think they're a Bentle, but in reality, they're just a mid-range Lada Kalina. I'm very sorry that you meet women who wear Bentle masks, but in reality, they don't live up to this mask. That's the majority of them. That's what I'm
talking about. So, you're hanging out in the wrong place. Where should you be hanging out? Where should I send you the addresses? Send me the addresses or just the location. Locations. You can already see that location doesn't quite sound right. There. Let's discuss this, ah, the point of adapting to a woman. Look,
criticism. And about criticism. Why can I criticize a woman? A woman doesn't criticize me. Let me explain. If the director, the general director, for example, of Vkusnaya and period Yeah, well, or any other company, the general director of Google will come and start reprimanding the employee. That's normal. It depends on what situation. Look.
Let me give you an example. Let's say you have someone on your team, yes, an assistant, for example, yes, if you scold the assistant, that's normal. Well, of course. But if in front of the whole team at a planning meeting the assistant starts scolding and criticizing you, is that normal? No. No. Hierarchy. Right, of course.
Because I hired her and she's my... Absolutely right. Hierarchy. There's a hierarchy in relationships too. Who's in charge in a relationship? Wait, that's a question. No, answer the question. Who's in charge in a relationship? The question here, Andrey, is that it's important to understand what relationship model you choose. There is a model where a woman is
more important than a man, and this is a conscious choice for a man. There are women who are weaker than a man, and this is a conscious choice for a man. Talking, you understand, don't get me started. No, I now... Why do women choose someone like that? Look, look, I have a girlfriend She's
very beautiful. She's smart, pretty, family-oriented. She doesn't go to clubs. Clubs are a different matter. She doesn't go to clubs , that's all, she's a family-oriented person, she chooses her own man. Look, I'm a super unsafe option for a woman, because whenever I go somewhere, everyone looks at me. Narcissist? No, that's just a fact. That's a fact.
Narcissist. That's a fact that I'm a narcissist. Yeah. Next. [ __ ], it's my fault. I'm telling you, it's been an hour . Look, I'm 26 years old. 26 years old. I've never in my life won an argument with a woman. Not once. Never worked out. Guys, don't try it. That's right, you're right.
That's right. Kiss the bracer. Look. Ah, look. The world actually exists because there is a hierarchy. If an ordinary employee of some establishment were to scold the president of the country in front of everyone, something irreparable would happen. The country would collapse. What does that have to do with it? Hierarchy? Politics. The country will collapse, look, the country will collapse. Well,
and terrible things will start happening everywhere, everywhere , because some employee allowed himself to scold the president, why can't I do that? Relationships are a small, defined world that arises between two people . A woman cannot be the main one in a relationship. She can't. Why? Explain. Look, a man with minimal testosterone still has
seven times more testosterone than a woman at her maximum. A woman cannot manage a relationship by her nature. A woman is married to a man. The man is the main one. Do you agree? The man is the main one in the relationship. See, I'm not arguing. How can a woman deem the main one in a relationship? How
to deem? No. To criticize, to speak, to express her thoughts, emotions, to ecologically defend her boundaries. What boundaries? To turn on her wisdom. What boundaries? The ability to show the right emotions. We are talking about criticism. We are talking about criticism. To guide. So, criticism, you understand, you can call anything criticism . They won't agree with anything. I like
my pink T-shirt. I like it. So, let's say I'm going to talk to a girl, and she says: "Damn, wear a green one." I'd say: "Listen, I'll wear the one I want, and you'll like it." Yeah. Now, any other man would most likely wear a green one, but he wants to kiss a [ __ ] in the evening,
so he needs to be comfortable, so that they give it to him, as most men think, you know? But this is the opposite, any woman, when you tell a woman off harshly, put her in her place in a good way, she may be unhappy. I've really noticed this. I've really noticed. That is,
for example, when I come in, yes, I think something is a mess, I start scolding the woman in a normal form, in a normal way. Well, that is, without harshness and so on. And then, right? That is, but she feels this true male core. She outwardly expresses dissatisfaction, goes to the kitchen to clean and
grins so much that she has a strong man. The only one who put her in her place . Do you understand? A woman naturally wants a strong alpha male who will put her in her place and will do with her whatever he wants. She will just be a little defenseless girl all her life bearing his children, cooking and
being happy. That's why I've repeated more than once that the happiest woman is a woman standing in the kitchen in a dress, cooking for her beloved husband with her mouth closed and that and with a belly. Social networks and all sorts of Disney cartoons that make her a princess out of who knows what prevent this woman from living happily. And then they think
that they can get everything for free. A man doesn't have to do anything. A man works three jobs, day and night. The poor unfortunate man comes home in the evening : "Oh, honey, you're tired, to the salons beauty walked. Mm, you poor unfortunate thing, not adapted to anything, lazy and so on. No, it’s impossible to live with such a
woman and build something, because you constantly hear from her: “But you just have me.” Oh, Andrey, patriarchy is a cool thing. I absolutely agree. At some point, many people simply started fighting for equality. That's [ __ ] up. But women continue to tell men: "Take responsibility for me. Look." But every person, every
man and every woman chooses a partner with whom the choice of one or the other partner will work, and which model suits both of them. Understand? Agree. There is supply, there is demand. Agree. Look, I'll give you an example. And I started earning my own money when I was 14 years old. At 17, I already had a stable
business. I had chain stores and so on. Question. Your mother told you when you were a child that you need to achieve everything yourself, you don’t need men. There is nothing to expect from men . Why did n't you say so? How did you know that you had to go to work? Because I always wanted it myself.
I enjoyed making money. That's how I liked it. This was my inner support and desire to earn money. Could have been born with it. Most likely , someone told you. No, I could have been born with this. OK. OK. My mother is the same too. And dad. My mom and dad have been in business all my life
. And that means I earned my money. That's it, when I met my husband, I was 21 years old. I already had my own apartment, I already had my own car, I had my own stable business that was bringing in money. Well, I'll explain it to you, because at some point, at some
point, I'll tell you this, when I met him, he knew that I was a business person. Yes. I was working. At the same time, I was studying at the same time; I was receiving a higher education at the Polytechnic University. Yes, but I devoted most of my time to him. Yes. Then, when we started living together, I
also did business. Then I got married and gave birth to a baby. And for the first six months I was always alone with my child. I had nothing, no one. At the same time, I was also working, cooking, and taking care of the child . And at some point my husband said to me: "Anzhelika, I don't want
you to work anymore. I want you to sit at home all day, raise the children and cook borscht. What's his name? Ilya. Set an example for him. Ilya is the best. Let's stick together. We, we, strong men, need to stand to the death in this world, fight for the truth. And listen further. What? I
absolutely support your man. This is my ex-husband. Ex-husband. A very correct decision, actually. Well, listen further. And I told him, I said: "Ilya, you understand, I'm saying, when Tobolsk and I, when you and I met, you already knew what I was like . You're just trying to break me and do what you want."
Yeah. We tried to find a compromise for a long time, tried to come to some kind of result, but in the end we couldn't agree on many things and we voluntarily divorced. Sold out for business? No, I didn't sell out for business, I simply chose myself because I wanted to be a happy woman first and foremost, and
only then a wife and mother. But I haven't felt like a happy woman lately. Exactly. We divorced, he married for the first time after me, then a second time. And you know, he literally just recently told me: "You know," he says, "what I regret most in my life? That I didn't hold you back because, "
Ha, hold on, we're with you." Because you really are the woman who knew what she wanted. And despite the fact that you were in business, you were always first and foremost in your family. Listen, that's wonderful. This is an elementary example of, well, that is, your man is a normal man, as far as I understand from the conversation, and
so choose your priority. It's also difficult for him to find a woman for life. Do you see what I'm telling you? We, look, I'm 26 years old, I'm a normal man. In relation to women, a normal man, I take care of all external issues, I earn well. How many people do you know at 26
who earn as much as I do? Not that many, actually. You earn. And here's the question, the concept of good, that's also different, you understand? No, wait. Can you go and buy an apartment right now? I can. Which one? For how much? On the ruble market? No, on the ruble market, not yet. How much does
an apartment cost on Rublyovka? I don't know. Well, a nice apartment in the area. I can afford it for 50-60 million. A good apartment costs 100 million. 100 million. Well, maybe fifty-fifty. Okay. Then I can buy a car, some car, a car. I can buy a Range Rover now. How much does it cost?
I can buy it for 45, for 50. So, you'll spend all your money satisfying the needs of another person. Can I? No, not a woman. Ah, now let's get back to the way it is. It's not that they're inadequate, it's just that there's no woman in life yet for whom you would be able and willing to change.
I agree to change, to adapt somewhere, somewhere to her little wisdom. Where do women get this in their heads? Where do women get this in their heads? Look, based on your relationship. Is it okay to discuss this with you briefly if I give my feedback. So you only give feedback. They don't let
me not speak out. We have a patriarchy. Even here on our podcast Patriarchy. Any word a woman says is simply annulled. Annulled. Okay then . Look, basically, your man has perfectly adequate—let's say, let's put it this way: did you have any conditions in the relationship, right? On your part, too? Well, there were probably some, so that
he would cover some of your external needs, and so on. Well, some conditions. Okay, so did he fulfill them? No, he did n't. No. Ah, okay, then the question is. Yes, I agree. But what's the point here? Basically, the man's request: why would a man who earns money, develops and grows, need a woman who, like a
workhorse, plows alongside him in parallel? There's no source from which to recharge. A woman needs to set different priorities . Do you understand that? So look, for example, 100 years ago you wouldn't have even thought of leaving such a man. 100 years ago you weren't around, Do you understand? And there was no such system, and there
was no such thinking. The thing is that after the release of these films, cartoons, all this, all this, all this, women are instilled in their heads from childhood that there is no need to rely on a man. Develop yourself. What kind of men does this attract? Since when did this start? Question. Well, it’s since the 2000s, since the release of
the film. Pretty Woman. No, that’s when our whole history began. First of all, Pretty Woman came out in the nineties, especially since then, when did feminists appear, the first movement? I don’t know at all, honestly. The seventies. In America. Where did it come from? The United States. No. Where did it come from? It’s a clan of
women who were offended by men. 9% subject themselves to domestic violence. So, did you know that, look, according to statistics, in same-sex marriages between two women there are three times more conflicts than in relationships with a man. Three times more. Who files for divorce more often, a man or A woman? A woman.
Why? Because women are professional traitors. That's where we end the podcast. And you can't change everyone's mind. Yes, that's impossible. It's a fact. Okay, but we've got time for this. We're standing here, we're standing here. I actually really love women, honestly, girls and so on, but just look at what I want to convey in
my podcasts in general. The fact that girls really, I'm worried about you first and foremost, yes, and for men too , you need to raise your testosterone. You need to raise your testosterone. What's the point? [music] Girls have been raised on Disney cartoons and so on, very spoiled. I can get everything, I
don't need to give anything in return. It doesn't work. That is, there can't be a healthy relationship when one only gives, and the other only receives. This is what gets in the way. I really, I really am present in different clubs , yes, and I see girls and women of different ages, Single, without
a family, you know? And they don't understand why you're right. Yes. That's why you should always adhere to one rule: there's a man, he's the boss. Good. And everything is built around this understanding. Surrendering to a man, accepting his power and giving in to it means becoming happy for a woman. Yes, that's right. It's
cool that you worship him. That's never happened before. That's it . But overall, that's the funny part. And that's it, Angelique, thank you for coming to the dialogue today. I think we had a really great chat. There were a lot of cool topics that we discussed. That's why I'm sure our episode will get
lots and lots of views and lots and lots of comments. It will be interesting to read. What do you think, should a woman submit to a man in a relationship or not? Write, share, and we'll wrap it up. That's it. Thank you very much for coming, we also chatted. Have a nice day
everyone. Bye-bye. Bye.
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