Why Good Men Rarely Win Their Ex Back (And How to Change It) | Coach Ken

As illogical as it sounds, sometimes it's the best person, it's the best man, it's the strongest person, it's the most sincere, willing to take accountability, willing to make the necessary changes. Sometimes it's that person with the purest heart, the strongest mind, and the best choice that's the very person that never gets that second chance.

[clears throat] In this video, I'm going to explain to you why that is. And one of the things I want to address immediately is there are a lot of people that are that sincere, loving, authentic person that want no part of no contact. They want no part of anything that sounds like a manipulation that isn't

transparent, that isn't authentic, and I completely get it. And I'm not trying to teach you or coach you in this video how to be a manipulator. I'm just asking you to give me the course of this video to explain to you maybe why, despite your sincere intention to be the best person to win them back, you're actually

projecting a weak version of yourself that makes it very likely that they never come back. I'm just asking you to hear me out and then make the decision that you feel like is best for you. But at least hear me out on this. Because one of the things that'll happen is when we're in pain after a breakup, we are

emotionally shaken. Let's just assume in the situations I'm talking about here that you're not a douchebag. Again, this video is for good, sincere, high-value men who are trying to get the woman they love back. Well, because you're sincere, because you're authentic, you're leading with what your heart, with what your mind, with what the the true you is