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I no longer have the energy to tell people what they did was wrong. Stay blessed and have the life that you deserve. Because there is a stage of maturity where you realize not every misunderstanding deserves a whole meeting. Not every disrespect deserves a whole paragraph. Not everyone who hurt you is confused about what they actually did.

Sometimes they understand it perfectly. they just expected you to tolerate it and that's a very different problem people with big hearts they waste years explaining boundaries to people who actually benefit from them having none you keep thinking maybe if i just explain it better they're gonna understand honey they understand they just don't agree that your discomfort should cost them access to you and that's when

communication becomes over explained a boundary that requires somebody else's agreement is not about that's like a negotiation that you did not sign up for sometimes closure isn't finally getting somebody to admit they were wrong closure is realizing that you don't need a confession to make a decision you don't need them to understand why you're leaving you need you to understand why

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