Video by emmalokaimind

You've done self-love work, nervous system regulation, therapy, all of this shit, and yet you still have trouble looking someone in the eye and telling them, you need to buy my offer. It's not a contradiction. Healing versus leading someone to buy your offer are two different skills. Yes, healing is so beautiful, but it's not going to actually translate into you having the audacity to lead someone to buy your offer, right?

And this is why it probably is confusing to you and you're like, but I've done all this self-love work. I showed up for myself. I noticed a difference. You probably notice a difference in the way that you show up for yourself, but it's still not translating into sales. Because you've done all the reps of self-love,

like looking yourself in the mirror, doing your hair more, giving yourself more time to meditate, you know, all of those things. But you have not done the reps of actually leading people to see that you are the only option. It's the way that you speak. It's the way that you post. It's the way that you show up.

It's the way that you allow yourself to make a fucking mistake and not beat yourself up over it. Like there are so many things that you can do to actually harness the skill of having the audacity to lead somebody. You need reps of the specific skill of looking somebody in the eye and telling them exactly what your offer

is going to do for them without softening it, without dropping your price, without trying to over explain or over give. Healing has brought you to the woman that you are, but learning how to lead people is gonna get you fucking paid.