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If she wanted to, she would. Boys, it's our turn. If she wanted peace, every conversation wouldn't turn into a courtroom. If she wanted to understand you, your vulnerability wouldn't be used against you six months later. If she wanted to build trust, she wouldn't punish you every time you tell the truth. But here's the painful part.

A lot of men stay because they keep falling in love with her potential. The woman she could be. The relationship it could become. The future she keeps promising. It's fairy dust. Meanwhile, they're ignoring the reality that they're living in. Because if she wanted to communicate, she would. If she wanted to take accountability, she would.

If she wanted to protect your peace the way you protect hers, she would. The right relationship does not feel like you're continually trying to put out a fire. It feels like coming home. If she wanted to, she would. And if she doesn't, you have to stop convincing yourself that one more conversation is going to change her mind.

I love y'all. Peace.