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Hey yo, try to use the phone less when you're dating. When dating, many people text instead of hanging out with each other. This creates a virtual connection. When you use the phone less, you give each other space to grow. Back then, we used to send each other letters which would take months at a time to come.

This would give people time and space to miss each other. The phone doesn't allow you to miss each other. You are constantly in contact. Giving each other space and time increases love. Respect goes up, attraction goes up, people think about each other more. Try to use the phone to just set up dates.

Otherwise, call each other. There is a lack of tone when texting, so people might misinterpret what you say. When you talk on the phone, it's like being in person. You can understand each other much better. You also get to hear their voice. Texting too much is bad. It distorts communication, and there's less to talk about in person.

When you do text less, you think less about the phone when dating. The phone can cause someone to be obsessive with another person because they're not responding. Use texting to plan dates or to call each other. Let yourselves be apart to miss each other. It increases love in the end. Make it clear that you do this.

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